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Don't we all have a little megalomania in us? After all, our thoughts are the only ones running through our head, what we choose to look at are the only things we see, and we choose to do everything we end up doing.
So, when I first thought of changing the world, I looked at it from the perceptive of a megalomaniac. Hoards of people whispering to one another, pointing in my direction, ‘is that him?', ‘there he is...that is him!', 'I think he just looked at me!!'
All just from walking into the room; like Bono, Tony Robbins, or the Dalai Llama, a rockstar in my own right. I own the crowd and their adoration. I am a demigod, but not the conceited type. I am humble about my fame. I am only really interested in helping others, and I have an almost miraculous track record of doing so. I am of pure intention despite the flashing lights all around me, which makes me even more admirable.
Ok, so maybe you have no idea what I'm talking about, but that is what my personal view of "changing the world" first emerged as.
Over time I've realized that concept was based in immaturity, ego, and too much television. ;-)
I like the pond ripples analogy. Everything I do when coming in contact with another person has the ability to ripple through the lives of millions of people through the vessel of emotional contagion that can end up manifesting as a tidal wave - of love, hate, trust, jealousy, introspection, obliviousness, sarcasm, empathy, courage, etc. - crashing on the shore of some tropical island half way around the world.
But there will be no whispering crowds, and even if there were, in reality, it would probably just make me uncomfortable.
- Derek, this is great. I myself, like most of us I suspect, have imagined the whispering crowds. But I find it incredibly rewarding that just one person valued something I had to say. I've begun to appreciate the simple things in life and that simple pleasure is hard to beat.
- True, true! It's all about the ripples and the deep, messy, invested relationships that change things through further cultivation of good, deep relationship. Not too many good changes out there that have come from rugged individualists and dictators.
- Nice article mature and sensible please get this to a US congressman asap! I liked it a lot :)
- I agree with the ripples analogy. For me, the best way to change the world is to change ourselves. I just try to be kind to others and hope that my kindness is passed on to others. Certainly my anger, contempt or disappointment would be passed on.
- Derek - excellent post. I really like the way you think. And it's not weird. The pond ripples analogy is, I think, very true - maybe on a smaller scale - maybe not so small. I don't know. I think we never know the real effect of our actions, so they had best be for good while we hope for the best. good job!





